Ready to master oral sex? It may take a little practice, but it can be a real turn-on. News Politics Entertainment Communities. Gently start to use your mouth on his penis or her vagina. Once you have your mouth on your partner's genitalia, just explore. I always thought guys doing the alphabet on a lady was more urban myth than fact. If you remove all the hype around orgasm, you create an environment that facilitates relaxation and enjoyment.
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It's about knowing exactly what to do, how to do it, where to do it, and when to do it! And for your own benefit, remember to be present to taste, texture, smells, sensations. The clitoris, with about of 8. Sometimes it is good enough to just feel those amazing sensations without focusing on the goal! Variety and creativity are key here. You may be in the mood to pleasure your partner, but check in with them first.